Becoming an Adolscent

Childhood to adolescences Eventually, everything has to change. Whether it is for the best or the worst is to be determined. In this short story Steven becomes to a greater extent than(prenominal) realistic about the nature of breaking up and he also learns to consider the feelings of others. Steven gains a deeper understanding of himself and figures out who he wants to become. In breaking up by Susan Beeby and Paul Lima, Steven experiences a transition from childhood to adolescences. Stevens view of organism in a human relationship is not realistic because he does not k directly what commission entails.He attended his girlfriends birthday party, where he made her a cake and gave her a special birthday gift. His girlfriend give tongue to when he gave me a gold band for my birthday, I thought our relationship was solid. (Beeby and Lima 1) Steven did not pull in the sentimental values a ring has for a girl. He did not think about the generatement he barely made to her, resultin g in a very immature choice. Steven is now seeing his ex-girlfriend not acting like she is upset or mad about him breaking up with her.She is not free him the satisfaction that he craves for. Steven than proclaimed and every time I saw her afterwards- laughing with her friends, completely if tone at me with icicle eyes- I almost gagged on what I said. (Beeby and Lima 1) He is now taking more accountability for his actions. Steven is realizing he should have never made a commitment when he was not put together because it hurt him more in the end. He started out making immature decisions and he made attainment through the story by taking more responsibility for the actions he chooses.In addition to that, Steven takes more steps to becoming more of an adult. Steven gets the opportunity to understand how to take to be others feelings. His girlfriend was expressing how their relationship was not perfect. the crunch did have its weaknesses, Steven would virtuallytimes break our d ate(Beeby and Lima 1) said his girlfriend. Steven did not take into consideration that mayhap his girlfriend was really looking forward to their date. He did not think about her feelings. More into the story, Stevens girlfriend explained how he has changed. sometimes he brought me flowers and wrote me poems (Beeby and Lima 1) his girlfriend expressed. He is now realizing he should respect his girlfriends feelings and he should make her feel special. By this time he is not just thinking about himself. Steven makes a transition from acting very immature to more mature, and is now real treating his girlfriend with respect. With the ability to respect others, he finds out who he wants to become. Steven has more of an understanding of himself. He is analyzing what he thinks a poet should do about love. love means commitment and real poets dont commit themselves, not to no body. (Beeby and Lima 1) Steven is relating himself to what a poet would do, not to what he thinks is best for himse lf. He also experiences a wide awakening of who he thought he was. Steven was questioning if he was really a poet. but I should have known I wasnt a poet because I was afraid of how far we could go on the name of poetry. (Beeby and Lima 1) Steven made an adult decision realizing he was not a poet because he actually loved her.He finally understood that you can be your own version of a poet and do not have to follow all the guidelines of a poet. Steven takes a huge step from being a child to becoming an adult. He experienced the aftermath of a break up. Steven also now knows how to consider other peoples feelings not just his own. He realizes who he wants to become Steven took some time to figure out his faults, but in the end it all worked out to better him. The only question is will he stay an adolescences or make his way back to becoming more of a child?